Let me make this very clear now, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SHOULD NEVER BE REDUCED TO A SIMPLE MISTAKE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS A CRIME THAT COSTS LIVES, RUINS FAMILIES AND DESTROYS COMMUNITIES. IT'S IMPACTS ARE TOO BIG TOO SIMPLY BE A MISTAKE.
So I wrote Justin a little something...I doubt he'll read it but hey, I do have hope.
Dear Justin Bieber,
I am sad that I have to write this letter but it’s a case
where you have so many young fans that are influenced by what you say on social
media be it on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram that I couldn’t let your Instagram
post about Chris Brown slide especially the bit about his assault of Rihanna
being a ‘mistake’.
A mistake is something like burning the food, turning the TV
off at the socket instead of turning off the vacuum cleaner or even wetting
your pants, things that are embarrassing but can be fixed easily enough and you
learn from them however domestic violence is not just simply a ‘mistake’
especially when it has serious and traumatic consequences for the victim who will
likely live with the physical, emotional and mental trauma of that assault for
the REST OF THEIR LIVES if they haven’t been murdered by their abuser.
Domestic violence can also trigger drug and alcohol
addiction, homelessness and not to mention creates an environment of fear
within a family that can have consequences of breaking up a family and
destroying whole communities.
You were saying bullying is not okay, well, bullying is a method abusers use to isolate the victim
Now you know the impact of domestic violence, let’s talk
about your mate Chris Brown and systematically go through his record because
its MORE THAN ONCE that he has been violent toward women. There’s even a
Rolling Stone timeline of his abuse of women which only goes as far as 2016,
here it is for your own perusal: https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-lists/timeline-of-chris-browns-history-of-violence-towards-women-103402/club-shove-june-2013-103999/
Oh and last year, Brown was arrested for assaulting a
photographer in a nightclub in 2017.
Justin, Brown might have a whole load of musical ability but
his record as an abusive human being speaks more than any talent he might have
and really given the women in your life, you should know better than to claim
that committing abusive behaviour is a mistake because its not, domestic
violence costs lives and communities and it makes me sad to see that, even despite being loved by so many teenage girls who will enter (hopefully) loving relationships and being married to a young woman, that you are enabling an abuser like Chris Brown.
Hopefully one day, you’ll understand this, Justin, and re-think your posts praising Chris Brown.